CALLED TO PEACE. AND BE
THANKFUL.
Unpacking the 2018-2019
Program Theme for St. James the Less Episcopal
by The Rev. Rock Higgins
This year
we will have repeated opportunities to explore the idea that we are “Called To
Peace. And Be Thankful.” We take this from Colossians 3:15 from a longer
passage looking how as one body in Christ we are called to be at peace with one
another and with all.
We spent
time as a staff in prayer and discussion about where God is moving at St. James
the Less, where our country and culture is going, and how we are thinking in
these times. As we talked a consensus came to the idea of Peace, and how we as a
church needs to model and practice this very foundational practice of Christian
values. In exploring Scriptures, we came upon Colossians 3 and Paul’s extended
metaphor and impassioned plea for peace in and through the Church.
So, in
light of all that, we spent an hour at Shrine Mont unpacking the theme “Called
To Peace. And Be Thankful.”
(Many thanks to Senior Warden John Hoar for this
wonderful graphic!)
Colossians 3:12-17 New International Version
(NIV)
12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe
yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13
Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance
against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues
put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.
15 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body
you were Called to peace. And be thankful. 16 Let the message of
Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all
wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with
gratitude in your hearts. 17 And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it
all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
When we
as a Church talk about being called to Peace, we have to look at in multiple
ways: Peace with God, Peace with Self, and Peace with Others. None are mutually
exclusive, but all need to be a part of living into and out of being “at
peace.”
Peace is
a lot of things to a lot of people. Now for many peace is the absence of war.
On a literal sense they are right, but a lot of resentment, bitterness, and
hatred can reside and still not be at war. Shalom, the Hebrew word we translate
as peace, has more context and nuance than we give. It is wholeness,
completeness, and contentment. It is having the windows up, the doors unlocked,
the kids are in bed, and the whole house is safe and sound. There is no worry
looming outside the door.
“God is in his heaven and all's right with the world.” That is Shalom. We are
Called to Shalom. That sense of security and contentment, not an absence or
abatement of conflict. This is a far more holistic ideal.
And we
are needing a long-term approach and commitment to even make a start toward
this. I think of the interactions on a national stage and interpersonally. I
think on how people drive and treat each other in traffic. I think on how we would
care for one another if we lived lives of peace. I would love that. I want
that.
Called To Peace With God
To be at
peace with God begins with how we perceive God sees us. I remember reading in
high school Jonathan Edward’s Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God. link This
image of a spider being dangled above a flame is unforgettable. Does God really
see us that way? I do not think that the whole of Scripture points to that. We
could all find verses that may point to that, but the story and whole of
Scripture is the Good Shepherd seeking and saving the lost sheep. We are the
Beloved of God. God’s view of us is grace-filled, not a target for lightning
bolts. God does not want to smite us. God wants to love us. There is not an
adversarial relationship but a nurturing one, actively working for us to be our
best to God’s honor and glory. We are the pictures in God’s wallet, “That’s my
kid!” That is how God loves us, and it is a very different picture than the one
Edwards paints.
As we
grow in the perception of God’s love towards us, we begin to see how our lives
can “merge lanes” so that we can get into God’s lane, and stop going our own
way. God enables us to “get over” and into the right lane. We all have our
blind spots, and it is never a one-time conversion. Every day we “work out our
salvation with fear and trembling.” (Philippians 2:12) And like our Shaker
brothers and sisters sang, “till turning, turning we come ‘round right.” link
As
Episcopalians, this all comes back to our Baptismal Covenant. The promises we
make there for ourselves, or our entrusted children if they are too young,
begin with the Apostle’s Creed, that ancient statement of faith looking at the
core of Christian belief. Immediately following those, come these sets of
promises. (Notice, that the response is “I will, with God’s help.” You are not
trying to live up to these by yourself.)
Will you
continue in the apostles' teaching and fellowship, in the breaking of the
bread, and in the Prayers?
I
will, with God's help.
Will you persevere in resisting evil, and, whenever you fall into sin, repent
and return to the Lord?
I will, with God's help.
Will you proclaim by word and example the Good News of God in Christ?
I will, with God's help.
Will you seek and serve Christ in all persons, loving your neighbor as
yourself?
I will, with God's help.
Will you strive for justice and peace
among all people, and respect the dignity of every human
being?
being?
I will, with God's help.
Notice a
couple of things. We promise to keep growing and learning. We promise that WHEN
we sin, (and we will, perfection is unattainable) we repent and come back and
we are WELCOMED back. We promise to “preach at all times, and when necessary
use words.” (St. Francis) We promise to serve and love our neighbors. And we
promise to work for justice in all lives. “If you want peace, work for
justice.” (Pope Paul VI) We have to continually work for others, to help our
brothers and sisters, especially those disempowered or forgotten.
Sharks
have to keep moving, or they cannot breathe and die. We have to keep growing,
bringing in the source of our life and love. Muscles must be worked for the
body to be healthy. And when we work our muscles they stretch and even have
little breaks and tears. And in their rebuilding and renewal we grow stronger.
We are not healthy by sitting around. We grow by working with what we have been
given.
We can
know we are growing by sensing the Fruit of the Spirit in our lives. (Galatians
5:22-23)
- Love
- Joy
- Peace
- Patience
- Kindness
- Goodness
- Faithfulness
- Gentleness
- And,
Self-Control
As we see
these in our lives, and at work in how we treat others and ourselves, we have a
good sense of where we are in being at peace with God.
Also, in
our life with God, we have to be more about listening than in talking at God.
We have 2 ears and 1 mouth. Maybe we should use them in that proportion. How
often does our prayer life become a litany, or a laundry list of wants and
complaints? When we take the time to be still and quiet in our prayers, we can
begin to see God at work in us and in the world. Without that quietude, it is
nearly impossible.
Acceptance
is another place of finding peace with God. The Serenity Prayer by Reinhold
Niebuhr speaks to this.
God grant
me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the
things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time; enjoying one moment at a time; accepting hardships as
the pathway to peace; taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I
would have it;
trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His Will;
that I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him
forever in the next. Amen.
Knowing
what to fight, what to ignore, what to accept is part of that growth and
increased peace with God.
Lastly,
think on Transformation. Growth is one thing, but that can often lead to more
and more. Transformation is a different type of growth, it is qualitative
instead of quantitative. It makes things better instead of just more. As we
grow into God’s peace, we look at how what we are doing today helps make us the
person God would have us be tomorrow. It is working smart more than working
hard. It is wisdom more than sweat.
Being at
peace with God is requisite before we can turn inward or outward. We are loved
and empowered to do what we need to do through this foundational relationship.
Called To Peace With Self
Peace
with Self comes back to the self-perception we started with. We are the Beloved
of God. This grace-oriented understanding is far from the approach I received
earlier in life. I was raised on Romans 3:23 “For all have sinned and fallen
short of the glory of God.” The problem is staying there. We are not worms. And
neither is anyone else. But we do miss the mark. That is what sin is. The word
comes from archery. The distance from the target’s bullseye to where the arrow
hits is the “sin.” We all have. We all will. Like we promised in the Baptismal
Covenant, when we sin and recognize that we stop and change our path and merge
back onto God’s way.
One way
we do that, or can anyway, is through Admission, Confession, and Penance. Do we
do this for God? No. God already loves us and forgives us. He took care of that
at Calvary. We, however, hold onto things. We need to come clean for our sake.
In the Episcopal Church we have the rite for the Reconciliation of the
Penitent. It is in the Pastoral Offices in the Book of Common Prayer. (p. 447-452)
link Here we
a situation where, “All May; Some Should; and, None Must.” I have only done
this rite with a handful of people in my ministry. There have been a few times
when I have explicitly recommended it because some nagging thing was still
being allowed to gnaw at people’s souls. Their hurting made me hurt, and this
was hard. I wanted to promise God’s grace and I wanted them to be at peace, and
a couple actually followed through. I was glad, and they seemed relieved. (Let
me know if this is something that might be of help to you.) Poe in the poem,
“The Raven” spoke on the raven rapping at the chamber door. Remember hearts
have chambers, too. What keeps rapping at your chamber? What do you need to let
go of so that you can have hope and be at peace? Prayer may work. If you are
too caught up though, maybe outward confession is something you might want to
consider.
Another
part of Peace with Self is Joy. I ask the staff all the time a simple question:
“Are you having fun?” If you cannot answer that yes, there is a problem. Do not
confuse happiness with joy, though. Situations can make us feel happy, but joy
comes from that deep place of knowing who we are, and that we are doing what we
should do and making a difference in the world. That can be in our families,
our work, our church, our world. Maybe all of those. Think of how joyful that
would be!
Lastly,
think of how we serve a God of Abundance. Life is not a Zero Sum Game. Neither
is faith. If God is the Creator of everything, what do we have to fear? If God
made everything, owns everything, and can create anything, how can we allow
ourselves to have a skeptical, lacking perspective? We have already been given
all we need. (Here is the link to the
sermon where I went further in detail on this the next day.) Be aware though,
this is not Prosperity Theology. God has provided our needs, not our wants or
whims. God is not Santa Claus. Abundance is an attitude, much like Joy, which
recognizes the whole process of life, the cycles and seasons. “For there is a
time for every purpose under heaven…” (The Byrds by way of Ecclesiastes 3)
Called To Peace With Others
Now that
we have considered our peace with God and Self, then we have a decent chance to
be at peace with Others. Think of when you are cranky and feeling bad, how do
you treat other people. We project and blame, we can be nasty and cantankerous.
Being secure in whose we are and who we are enables us to give what we have
been given, peace, forgiveness, and empowerment to change.
Paul is
very clear in our passage that there are things that we do before we forgive
others and it enables us to be at peace with them. Colossians 3:12b-14: “...clothe
yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13
Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance
against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues
put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.
So, do
this to work on being at peace with others. Clothe yourself with:
- Compassion
- Kindness
- Humility
- Gentleness
- Patience
- Forbearance
- Forgiveness
- And,
Love
Notice
where Forgiveness comes in and then it is wrapped up in Love. There are lots of
steps to get to that point of being able to forgive others. And even then they
may not accept it. But that is not anything you can control.
Forgiveness
is not about them really, anyway. It is about your relationship with them.
Revenge is a dish best served cold, said Shakespeare. And when we hold onto
things, it is like us drinking a poison and expecting it to affect the other
person. That vile bitterness only hurts us, though. They might not even know we
hold a grudge. How silly is that.
A story
is told of a Moody Bible College professor in Chicago who got of the El
(elevated train) every day and got his newspaper and went to the school. One
day a friend accompanied him. When he got to the newstand, the shopkeep cursed
him up one side and down the other talking about blankety-blank Christians,
blah blah blah. But the professor did not even respond, paid for his paper and
went on his way. His friend was shocked. Did this happen daily? Yes, said the
professor. The friend asked why on earth he would stop there every day then.
“It is the newstand between the El and Moody. How he acts is not important. Why
would I allow him to have that power over me to make me go out of my way for an
exact same paper they sell across the street?” Forgiveness is about us letting
go of the emotion and energy around a situation. And in that non-anxious
presence, we can actually help transform the situation and maybe even the other
person.
And that
leads into Respect. Being at peace with others has so much to do with respect.
We have to respect the “other” whoever they are. They cannot be less than or
seen us beneath us. If someone is hurting others, they have been hurt or are
hurting. “Hurting people hurt people.” Being respectful, especially when
someone is hurting you is so hard. Jesus was talking about that when he spoke
about “turning the other cheek.”
We also
need to have and demand respect for all. God has an inclination for the disempowered
and dispossessed. In the prophets they were the “widows, and orphans, and
strangers in your midst.” Jesus called them the “Least of These.” Part of our
responsibility in the Church is to care for and demand respect for all,
ESPECIALLY the LEAST of THESE! Being at peace is about creating systems of
respect for all people. This often begins with justice as Pope Paul VI said
above.
Lastly,
respect is something we need to demand for ourselves. Toxic people can be
forgiven, but if they are hurting or abusing anybody, we must stop enabling or
allowing this. God does not want anyone abused. We can work with them with
compassion and kindness, we can forgive them and love them. But when they
strike, we do not have to allow them to hit, hurt, or maim us or anyone else.
Remember, Jesus healed the servant of one of those that came to arrest him when
Peter cut off his ear. Jesus would not allow anyone to strike or be struck in
his name or defense.
Making
peace is different from keeping the peace. UN Peacemakers often maintain the
status quo, and people are often FAR from being at peace. We have to take this
a step further if we are Called to Peace. We must be Peace Makers. This is
active. It is costly. It is worth it. Because of that, and part of this year’s theme,
I have invited several area churches to join with us on November 5, the night
before our midterm elections for a service focusing on peace. It will be a
Community Call to Prayer and Communion. 8 churches or so are on board to come
together, pray for our nation, its leaders, and our culture that seems to
divisive and splintered. As the church we need to model what peace looks like.
We will step over our denominational differences, and have a joy-filled evening
of reflection, prayer, and celebration in our Unity in Christ, our first and
deepest commitment.
A story
is told of St. Francis. In the midst of the Crusades, St. Francis went to the
Holy Land. When he boat landed in Egypt, however, he was arrested because he
was Christian. When the jailers got to know him, though, they knew he was
characteristically different. He was so Godly, so Christlike, that he could not
be ignored. They sent him all the way up to the Caliph (King) to share his
words and faith, because he was so obviously different than anyone else they
had ever met. Christ had became his God and his All. (Meus Deus et Omnia! A
prayer of St. Francis) Because of this, he was released and sent home. His witness and life made a difference. That is why he could honestly pray, “Lord, make me an
instrument of your peace…” May we do the same this year as we remind each other
that we are Called to Peace. And Be Thankful!